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SPACE
♥ Friday, November 10, 2006 22:43

it is a mystery how people differ from each other.
differences like looks, personality and mind sets etc.

the factor that i'm interested to touch on today is space.
every one needs a different amount of space.
some likes to be transparent about their private lives, yet some like to hush hush about everything.
no one is right or wrong here.
it's just a matter of openness and comfort level.

honestly, i think that no one will ever understand just how much another person needs, in term of space.
we always say things like, "aiya, (s)he just needs his/her own space."
very well said but if you really think about it, do you know exactly how much space to give?

does leaving that person alone means giving that person enough space?
or does leaving that person alone but discussing about that person's issues with others means giving that person sufficient space?

seriously, it's not easy to define space. moreover, sufficient space.
i can tell you guys for sure, i'm one person who needs more private space than any other normal beings. the space is inclusive of physical and mental.